The Family Session Guide

Creating memories shouldn't be stressful. Here’s how to prepare for a smooth, fun, and beautiful session.

Maternity session at a sun-drenched South Bend park; professional pregnancy portraits by a South Bend family photographer.

1. What to Wear: Coordinate, Don’t Match

The days of everyone wearing identical white t-shirts and jeans are over. We want a look that feels curated but natural.

  • Pick a Palette: Start with one patterned piece (like mom’s floral dress or a child’s plaid shirt) and pull solid colors from that pattern for everyone else.

  • Texture is Your Friend: Think knits, linens, denim, and lace. Texture adds "depth" to photos without the distraction of loud patterns.

  • Avoid Logos: Large graphics or characters on kids' shirts distract from their faces.

  • Comfort First: If your toddler thinks their wool sweater is "itchy," it will show on their face. Ensure everyone can move, jump, and sit comfortably.

2. The "Happy Kid" Strategy

  • Nap & Feed: Schedule your session around nap times, not the other way around. A "hangry" toddler is a tough model!

  • The "Bribe" Bag: Bring small, mess-free snacks (like marshmallows or puffs) and their favorite toy to help get their attention behind the camera.

  • Avoid "Say Cheese": Please don't ask your kids to "smile" or "say cheese." It usually leads to forced, awkward expressions. Let me interact with them—I’m looking for those genuine giggles!

3. Preparation Timeline

  • 2 Days Before: Lay out all outfits to check for stains or missing buttons. Try everything on the kids to ensure nothing was outgrown overnight.

  • The Morning Of: Keep things low-key. If parents are stressed, the kids will pick up on that energy.

  • Arrival: Aim to arrive 10 minutes early. This gives the kids a moment to get used to the environment before we start shooting.

4. Trust the Process

  • Not every child will look at the camera at the same time, and that is okay. Some of the best family photos are the "in-between" moments—a dad whispering a joke, a mom kissing a forehead, or siblings running through the grass. Relax, interact with your family, and let me handle the rest.

Quick Checklist for Your Bag:

  • [ ] Mess-free snacks & water

  • [ ] A hairbrush/comb

  • [ ] Tissues or wet wipes (for stray crumbs or noses)

  • [ ] A backup outfit for "accident-prone" little ones

  • [ ] Your favorite playlist

Beyond the "Perfect" Pose

We all know the struggle of trying to get everyone dressed, out the door, and smiling at the same time. But here’s a secret: my favorite family photos aren't the ones where everyone is sitting perfectly still. They’re the ones where your toddler is belly-laughing, your teenager is actually cracking a smile, and you are looking at your family with pure pride.

The Experience

I specialize in lifestyle family photography, which means I prioritize connection over perfection. My sessions are designed to be fun, fast-paced (to keep the kids engaged!), and completely stress-free.

  • Location: Whether it’s the comfort of your home or a sun-drenched local park, we’ll find the perfect backdrop.

  • Styling: I’ll help you coordinate outfits so you look cohesive without looking "cluttered."

  • Direction: I’ll guide you through natural movements and prompts so you never have to wonder, "What do I do with my hands?"

Download Your Copy of The

Family Session Planning Checklist

This quick form helps me understand your family's unique "vibe" and any must-have shots so we can make the most of our time together. It only takes a few minutes and ensures your session is perfectly tailored to you.